What do you think would be better if you had to choose between being early or late for a date? You know the answer; it’s simple. Of course, it is better to be early for a date. Nobody wants to go on a date with someone who is always late.
Should a Man Be Early for a Date?
A man should arrive early for a date to signal interest and ensure the woman doesn’t wait for him. Planning to arrive early will also help you avoid being late. A man should be at least five minutes early for a date and preferably ten to fifteen minutes just to be safe.
There are many reasons to be early for a date. First and foremost, you always want to arrive on time. Being late for a date looks really bad. Aside from that, it is nice for the woman to arrive, and you are already there. I always have shown up early for dates. I really think it sets things off on the right foot and shows that I am interested.
Being Early is Better Than Being Late
Being late for a date sets everything off on the wrong foot. Especially if you show up with silly excuses or, even worse, act like there is nothing wrong with being late.
Punctuality is a sign of respect. Make sure to arrive on time for a date. The best way to ensure punctuality is by aiming to be early. It is better to be five minutes early than five minutes late. Typically, when I am going anywhere, I try to be ten or fifteen minutes early. This gives me plenty of wiggle room for traffic or miscalculations on time. I strongly advise that you plan your schedule and think through your date preparation routine to give yourself plenty of time. Being early is a good look, signaling that you have it together and are looking to put in effort. The effort will separate you from all the other guys who don’t care enough to go the extra mile.
Punctuality Looks Good
When a woman arrives for a date and the man is already there, it can make her feel good. She doesn’t have to wait for you, look for you, or worry if you are even going to show up. It is a much better experience if you are there, ready to go. It lets her know that this is a good man who will show up for her and take dating her seriously. If the man is early, it will make a much better first impression (especially on a first date). Being early tells her that you are a high-quality man through your actions. It is always better to show than to tell. You never want to tell a woman that you are a good man. You want to show her. Exhibiting curtsey, good manners, being responsible, and putting in the effort is how you show her you are a high-quality man.
What to Do When You Are Early
The most important thing about being early is not to spend that time being nervous. Whenever I am early, I simply listen to my favorite music and try to relax. Don’t stress out about the date, don’t worry about it. If the woman is a few minutes late, it’s ok. Women usually take more time to get ready than men do. Just try to relax and don’t get yourself worked up. You can rest assured that being early starts the date off right. This can hopefully help reduce any anxiety you might get before a date.
Please be chill and do not work yourself up. Stop overthinking, and definitely don’t spend any time worrying about whether she is going to like you. She either will or won’t. Either way, everything will be ok. I have another post you may want to read on why you should stop worrying about whether she likes you and just think about whether you even like her.
Check the Place Out If You are Early
Being early allows you to check the place out if you are meeting at a restaurant or bar. You can look for a table or a seat at the bar if you are just going for drinks. Side note, it is always best to make reservations for dinner dates, especially when going to a popular place.
Being Early Makes a Good Impression
Being early makes a good impression, and that’s what we are looking for. Now, go make a date and show up early.
